What is a marriage?

a marriage consist of two person who loves each other, and who had decided to spend the rest of the life with each other and this includes the duties. the duty to support this family, the duty to bring up the childrens and educate them. maybe after awhile there may be no more feelings, but the duty have to be done still! i am disappointed to see a a person who had failed to do his part as a parent of childrens. he's got a mistress outside and he doesn't support the family at all. house installment, electricity bill, insurance premiums.. its all not footed as promised. the poor mom cried every time.. this is not the 1st time he got a mistress outside and added now not to support the family. this had caused much grieves and frustrations to the childrens.

its understandable that once feelings are faded away, it is very hard to get it back.. but at least do something for the family?